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		<title>By: Sally</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12257</link>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 13:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather, 

Not only do your kids think that you are an amazing mom, but all of us do, too!  You are a wonderful example for all of us!  You are a shining example of what God wants all of us to be!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, </p>
<p>Not only do your kids think that you are an amazing mom, but all of us do, too!  You are a wonderful example for all of us!  You are a shining example of what God wants all of us to be!</p>
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		<title>By: Gretchen</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12233</link>
		<dc:creator>Gretchen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 22:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather, I know people see Jesus in your face everytime they meet you face to face, because I hear his gentle whisper everytime I read your blog.  His influence upon us through you is like a pebble on the water.  The ripples flow out infinitely--with each reader.  God bless you.  You are an amazing mother and woman of God.  No matter when you are called home, there isn&#039;t a doubt in my mind that you will hear a resounding, &quot;Well done, my good and faithful servant.  Well done!&quot;

Just think--your children have all you and a bag of chips. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, I know people see Jesus in your face everytime they meet you face to face, because I hear his gentle whisper everytime I read your blog.  His influence upon us through you is like a pebble on the water.  The ripples flow out infinitely&#8211;with each reader.  God bless you.  You are an amazing mother and woman of God.  No matter when you are called home, there isn&#8217;t a doubt in my mind that you will hear a resounding, &#8220;Well done, my good and faithful servant.  Well done!&#8221;</p>
<p>Just think&#8211;your children have all you and a bag of chips. <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jenn</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12221</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 15:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think, we all often forget, that even if we are not facing a life threatening problem - there&#039;s nothing telling us that we are promised tomorrow - we are not promised tomorrow, and must remember to live each day like there will be no tomorrow - 

To..Laugh like there&#039;s no one watching,
To..Dance like your hair&#039;s on fire,
To..Stand tall like a building that has never felt the crumbling effects of an earth quake,
To..Love with every piece of your heart,
To..Live like there IS no tomorrow!

God Bless, you are an amazing person, mother, wife, and servant to God you are an inspiration, a gift and a true friend!

Jennifer</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think, we all often forget, that even if we are not facing a life threatening problem &#8211; there&#8217;s nothing telling us that we are promised tomorrow &#8211; we are not promised tomorrow, and must remember to live each day like there will be no tomorrow &#8211; </p>
<p>To..Laugh like there&#8217;s no one watching,<br />
To..Dance like your hair&#8217;s on fire,<br />
To..Stand tall like a building that has never felt the crumbling effects of an earth quake,<br />
To..Love with every piece of your heart,<br />
To..Live like there IS no tomorrow!</p>
<p>God Bless, you are an amazing person, mother, wife, and servant to God you are an inspiration, a gift and a true friend!</p>
<p>Jennifer</p>
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		<title>By: Especially Heather</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12209</link>
		<dc:creator>Especially Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 10:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Mandy,
I am so very sorry for your loss, Madeline was such a miracle... she was beautiful too.  I will continue to keep your family in my prayers, thank you for sharing your needs with all of us, it is an honor to pray for you.

This fathers day, remember this:  She is in the arms of her heavenly daddy,  complete and whole.  And though your heart longs to have her back here, you will see her again...

Praying for you...
-H</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Mandy,<br />
I am so very sorry for your loss, Madeline was such a miracle&#8230; she was beautiful too.  I will continue to keep your family in my prayers, thank you for sharing your needs with all of us, it is an honor to pray for you.</p>
<p>This fathers day, remember this:  She is in the arms of her heavenly daddy,  complete and whole.  And though your heart longs to have her back here, you will see her again&#8230;</p>
<p>Praying for you&#8230;<br />
-H</p>
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		<title>By: Kathryn Griffiths</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12208</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathryn Griffiths</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 07:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It appears to me that the Lord is speaking to you.  I don&#039;t think you have any reason to worry about your legacy.  Keep being Heather.  The Lord is blessing others through you just as you are.  And if we are being blessed, I&#039;m certain your family is being blessed as well.  Take one day at a time.  God is there at every step.  I&#039;m still praying for you!

Hugs,
Kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It appears to me that the Lord is speaking to you.  I don&#8217;t think you have any reason to worry about your legacy.  Keep being Heather.  The Lord is blessing others through you just as you are.  And if we are being blessed, I&#8217;m certain your family is being blessed as well.  Take one day at a time.  God is there at every step.  I&#8217;m still praying for you!</p>
<p>Hugs,<br />
Kate</p>
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		<title>By: Terry</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12207</link>
		<dc:creator>Terry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 05:56:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Heather...I am just stopping by to wish you a very blessed Sunday!Love Terry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Heather&#8230;I am just stopping by to wish you a very blessed Sunday!Love Terry</p>
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		<title>By: kelli</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12206</link>
		<dc:creator>kelli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 05:22:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey sweetie,

Just wanted to wish Mark a super fabulous Father&#039;s Day. 

Hope it&#039;s fun, relaxing, and totally awesome!

Love you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey sweetie,</p>
<p>Just wanted to wish Mark a super fabulous Father&#8217;s Day. </p>
<p>Hope it&#8217;s fun, relaxing, and totally awesome!</p>
<p>Love you.</p>
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		<title>By: EEEEMommy</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12205</link>
		<dc:creator>EEEEMommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 04:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You do it evertime you post!  Especially when you&#039;re posts are full of God&#039;s Word!  You are leaving a legacy right now!  
I wanna leave a legacy too!  
Continuing to pray for you, 
Angel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You do it evertime you post!  Especially when you&#8217;re posts are full of God&#8217;s Word!  You are leaving a legacy right now!<br />
I wanna leave a legacy too!<br />
Continuing to pray for you,<br />
Angel</p>
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		<title>By: Mandy Hopkins</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12204</link>
		<dc:creator>Mandy Hopkins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 03:50:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather,
   I always enjoy reading your posts and am so inspired by you.  I found you through the ninetynineballoons blog and have read your blog for several months now.  I just lost my baby daughter last week and am really struggling to find some peace in this trying time.  Please pray for my family.  We are praying for you and yours.

Mandy Hopkins
www.madelinegracehopkins.blogspot.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,<br />
   I always enjoy reading your posts and am so inspired by you.  I found you through the ninetynineballoons blog and have read your blog for several months now.  I just lost my baby daughter last week and am really struggling to find some peace in this trying time.  Please pray for my family.  We are praying for you and yours.</p>
<p>Mandy Hopkins<br />
<a href="http://www.madelinegracehopkins.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.madelinegracehopkins.blogspot.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: DKRaymer</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12202</link>
		<dc:creator>DKRaymer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 03:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been keeping tabs on you these past few months while going through my own medical adventure. Know that you AND your entire family are in my prayers.  Hang tough, and on the days that&#039;s too tough, we are here to hold you up!
DK</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been keeping tabs on you these past few months while going through my own medical adventure. Know that you AND your entire family are in my prayers.  Hang tough, and on the days that&#8217;s too tough, we are here to hold you up!<br />
DK</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12201</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 02:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather, I continue to be amazed at how the Lord gives grace and works in your life. After reading your posts, I just become speechless. You are a testimony of strength, and I know it comes from the Lord. May He continue to hold you close, give you grace, guidance and wisdom as you go through this. We can ALL learn from you! Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, I continue to be amazed at how the Lord gives grace and works in your life. After reading your posts, I just become speechless. You are a testimony of strength, and I know it comes from the Lord. May He continue to hold you close, give you grace, guidance and wisdom as you go through this. We can ALL learn from you! Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Just a mom</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12200</link>
		<dc:creator>Just a mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 02:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You my dear are such a sweet thing. You are on my thoughts daily and when I think of you I think how brave you are, How God has worked in your life and I thank Him for leading me to your blog. You Heather ispire me so much to look at today and Praise God for the day He has made.  You have touched more then you will ever know and in your long years here on earth you, you will be blessed.


Thank you for sharing with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You my dear are such a sweet thing. You are on my thoughts daily and when I think of you I think how brave you are, How God has worked in your life and I thank Him for leading me to your blog. You Heather ispire me so much to look at today and Praise God for the day He has made.  You have touched more then you will ever know and in your long years here on earth you, you will be blessed.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing with us.</p>
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		<title>By: bethy</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12199</link>
		<dc:creator>bethy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 00:36:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>child of mercy and grace who blessed His name?  who points to Him?  yes, my dear, that is YOU.  you make our Savior smile.  i hope i can leave that kind of legacy.  you inspire me.  and many, many others...know that.  bless you...you will win.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>child of mercy and grace who blessed His name?  who points to Him?  yes, my dear, that is YOU.  you make our Savior smile.  i hope i can leave that kind of legacy.  you inspire me.  and many, many others&#8230;know that.  bless you&#8230;you will win.</p>
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		<title>By: michelle</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12198</link>
		<dc:creator>michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 21:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You hit the nail on the head!  What matters after we are gone is what kind of a legacy did we leave?  Something to be proud of or a shambles?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You hit the nail on the head!  What matters after we are gone is what kind of a legacy did we leave?  Something to be proud of or a shambles?</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12197</link>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 20:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These are thoughts it would be good for all of us to ponder, because none of us is exempt from the possibility that our life could end at any moment.  You are blessing us with time to do just that.  I play organ at many funerals, and every one I have ever played for or attended, I wonder what would be said at mine.  If I have had an impact for good that will remain.  Billy Graham said, after the speeches at his library dedication last week-end, &quot;Well, I feel like I&#039;m at my own funeral.&quot;  What a blessing for him to be able to hear these words before he was gone.  But he gave all the glory to Jesus.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are thoughts it would be good for all of us to ponder, because none of us is exempt from the possibility that our life could end at any moment.  You are blessing us with time to do just that.  I play organ at many funerals, and every one I have ever played for or attended, I wonder what would be said at mine.  If I have had an impact for good that will remain.  Billy Graham said, after the speeches at his library dedication last week-end, &#8220;Well, I feel like I&#8217;m at my own funeral.&#8221;  What a blessing for him to be able to hear these words before he was gone.  But he gave all the glory to Jesus.</p>
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		<title>By: Bethany</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12196</link>
		<dc:creator>Bethany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 17:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good morning Heather - once again - you&#039;ve joined me for coffee! :)
I think it&#039;s important to ask those questions. Too bad we only ask them when we&#039;re faced with stuff like this...
God Bless you TODAY! hope it&#039;s a happy one...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning Heather &#8211; once again &#8211; you&#8217;ve joined me for coffee! <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I think it&#8217;s important to ask those questions. Too bad we only ask them when we&#8217;re faced with stuff like this&#8230;<br />
God Bless you TODAY! hope it&#8217;s a happy one&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jenn M.</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12195</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenn M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 13:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have shown me how to handle disappointment and uncertainty in my own life.  I already had a sense of that, but to see it in action, believe me it helped in my shadowed moments.  What i have been through isn&#039;t even as dire as what you are battling, yet I found strength in your thoughts.  Thank you for that.  I don&#039;t know you, yet I will never forget you, even if I never read another blog after today.  

Jenn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have shown me how to handle disappointment and uncertainty in my own life.  I already had a sense of that, but to see it in action, believe me it helped in my shadowed moments.  What i have been through isn&#8217;t even as dire as what you are battling, yet I found strength in your thoughts.  Thank you for that.  I don&#8217;t know you, yet I will never forget you, even if I never read another blog after today.  </p>
<p>Jenn</p>
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		<title>By: kittyhox</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12194</link>
		<dc:creator>kittyhox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 12:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been blessed by you, and I don&#039;t even know you in &quot;real life.&quot;  Judging from the impact you&#039;ve had on those who read your blog, I&#039;m sure your family and friends have been immeasurably blessed by God, through you.

Your older daughter just couldn&#039;t look more like you if she tried.  I&#039;ve noticed in her pictures that she has a certain quality that shines through the photos.  A radiance.  I think you can tell a lot about a person by their countenance in photos.  She looks like a lovely young woman filled with the love of Jesus and wise beyond her years.  Congratulations to her on her upcoming Baptism.

Bless you, Heather!  I believe our God has already used your life in a powerful and meaningful way and will only continue to do so.  He is on your side!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been blessed by you, and I don&#8217;t even know you in &#8220;real life.&#8221;  Judging from the impact you&#8217;ve had on those who read your blog, I&#8217;m sure your family and friends have been immeasurably blessed by God, through you.</p>
<p>Your older daughter just couldn&#8217;t look more like you if she tried.  I&#8217;ve noticed in her pictures that she has a certain quality that shines through the photos.  A radiance.  I think you can tell a lot about a person by their countenance in photos.  She looks like a lovely young woman filled with the love of Jesus and wise beyond her years.  Congratulations to her on her upcoming Baptism.</p>
<p>Bless you, Heather!  I believe our God has already used your life in a powerful and meaningful way and will only continue to do so.  He is on your side!</p>
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		<title>By: Nancy Jensen</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/06/15/legacy-2/comment-page-2/#comment-12193</link>
		<dc:creator>Nancy Jensen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 09:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You already have a wonderful legacy.  You are an amazing woman and I can tell that your husband and the rest of your family love you to pieces.  You don&#039;t have any worries about how your family will remember you.  I hope you will have many years left to work on your legacy.  :-)  

But I do understand that you are thinking about it and I hate it when reality reaches up and slaps us in the face. On occasion I will look at my daughter while she is talking to me or even just doing her own thing, and it hits me that someday she won&#039;t be here.  She is dying... slowly, (although at times her health will take a nose-dive and then level out at a new low) but she is dying.  As I watch her I wonder what her face will look like when she sees the Lord again.  I imagine her face lighting up and a huge smile spreading upon her face.  She tells me that she will give Jesus a big hug when she sees him again.  I believe it.  And she deserves it.  But just because she is dying doesn&#039;t mean that we can&#039;t enjoy today and cherish each moment.  We are surprising her and taking her to a stable to see a real live horse up close.  She has only seen a pony up close and she has dreamed of seeing a horse.  A friend of ours contacted her friend who had to get permission from the stable owner who wants to be there and we have liability papers to sign, etc... so it&#039;s finally all set up for us to go see a real live horse.  We have to deal with the oxygen and wheelchair but I have been reassured that they will accommodate whatever Jessica&#039;s needs are.  Isn&#039;t it AWESOME?!  There are some wonderful people out there.  And you are one of the them!

I just finished reading your last couple of posts and I wanted to reiterate what others said: you are allowed to feel &quot;down&quot;.  It&#039;s only normal so please don&#039;t be hard on yourself.  My daughter gets discouraged because she can&#039;t do so many things that she wants to do...  even things that she used to do.  We have a game that we play when she is having a rough time and can&#039;t settle down to go to sleep.  The game is that we take turns naming something that we like.  It can be something we like to do or like to think about... movies we like to watch or even things we like to daydream about.  Sometimes we mentions things that we&#039;ve done in the past or places we have gone.  After about 10 - 15 minutes of that Miss Jess and I are both smiling and happy.  She is then usually able to go to sleeping dreaming about something that makes her smile.  I hope that might work for you, too.  

(((Hugs)))
from one heart mom to another,
Nancy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You already have a wonderful legacy.  You are an amazing woman and I can tell that your husband and the rest of your family love you to pieces.  You don&#8217;t have any worries about how your family will remember you.  I hope you will have many years left to work on your legacy.  <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>But I do understand that you are thinking about it and I hate it when reality reaches up and slaps us in the face. On occasion I will look at my daughter while she is talking to me or even just doing her own thing, and it hits me that someday she won&#8217;t be here.  She is dying&#8230; slowly, (although at times her health will take a nose-dive and then level out at a new low) but she is dying.  As I watch her I wonder what her face will look like when she sees the Lord again.  I imagine her face lighting up and a huge smile spreading upon her face.  She tells me that she will give Jesus a big hug when she sees him again.  I believe it.  And she deserves it.  But just because she is dying doesn&#8217;t mean that we can&#8217;t enjoy today and cherish each moment.  We are surprising her and taking her to a stable to see a real live horse up close.  She has only seen a pony up close and she has dreamed of seeing a horse.  A friend of ours contacted her friend who had to get permission from the stable owner who wants to be there and we have liability papers to sign, etc&#8230; so it&#8217;s finally all set up for us to go see a real live horse.  We have to deal with the oxygen and wheelchair but I have been reassured that they will accommodate whatever Jessica&#8217;s needs are.  Isn&#8217;t it AWESOME?!  There are some wonderful people out there.  And you are one of the them!</p>
<p>I just finished reading your last couple of posts and I wanted to reiterate what others said: you are allowed to feel &#8220;down&#8221;.  It&#8217;s only normal so please don&#8217;t be hard on yourself.  My daughter gets discouraged because she can&#8217;t do so many things that she wants to do&#8230;  even things that she used to do.  We have a game that we play when she is having a rough time and can&#8217;t settle down to go to sleep.  The game is that we take turns naming something that we like.  It can be something we like to do or like to think about&#8230; movies we like to watch or even things we like to daydream about.  Sometimes we mentions things that we&#8217;ve done in the past or places we have gone.  After about 10 &#8211; 15 minutes of that Miss Jess and I are both smiling and happy.  She is then usually able to go to sleeping dreaming about something that makes her smile.  I hope that might work for you, too.  </p>
<p>(((Hugs)))<br />
from one heart mom to another,<br />
Nancy</p>
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		<title>By: Liza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 06:57:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The other day I was thinking about life and death.  A friend of ours got hit by a car and died.  He&#039;s young, he&#039;s healthy.  We just never know when our time on earth is up ...and it&#039;s a comfort to know that because we know Jesus, we all will be with the Father.  In a little while we ALL will be with the Father....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTsGOeLxnMU</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day I was thinking about life and death.  A friend of ours got hit by a car and died.  He&#8217;s young, he&#8217;s healthy.  We just never know when our time on earth is up &#8230;and it&#8217;s a comfort to know that because we know Jesus, we all will be with the Father.  In a little while we ALL will be with the Father&#8230;.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTsGOeLxnMU" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTsGOeLxnMU</a></p>
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