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		<title>By: TishTosh</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-20287</link>
		<dc:creator>TishTosh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 03:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My daughter Willow is Autistic and ALSO was born with a rare congenital heart defect.  I happend upon your blog.  I am sure it was not by chance.  It was so uplifting.  PLEASE DO NOT STOP BLOGGING!  Christ had a love for the poor and the afflicted.  It is so important for people to understand the grace that comes with trials.  I will be praying for your family.  Bless you for your faith.  You are a testimony to him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My daughter Willow is Autistic and ALSO was born with a rare congenital heart defect.  I happend upon your blog.  I am sure it was not by chance.  It was so uplifting.  PLEASE DO NOT STOP BLOGGING!  Christ had a love for the poor and the afflicted.  It is so important for people to understand the grace that comes with trials.  I will be praying for your family.  Bless you for your faith.  You are a testimony to him.</p>
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		<title>By: Shellie</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-20154</link>
		<dc:creator>Shellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2007 03:10:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please, never stop blogging!  I know I&#039;m not always around, but you are in my thoughts and prayers, daily.  That will never change.  My mom asks about you all the time too.  She&#039;s moved back up here with us.  She says to let you know you&#039;re in her prayers too.

Press on with the good work you are doing.  Your story is touching so many lives.  What a testimony to Christ.  You are a blessing and always have been. =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please, never stop blogging!  I know I&#8217;m not always around, but you are in my thoughts and prayers, daily.  That will never change.  My mom asks about you all the time too.  She&#8217;s moved back up here with us.  She says to let you know you&#8217;re in her prayers too.</p>
<p>Press on with the good work you are doing.  Your story is touching so many lives.  What a testimony to Christ.  You are a blessing and always have been. =)</p>
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		<title>By: Judy</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-20090</link>
		<dc:creator>Judy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 14:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather, I&#039;ve been reading Kris Carr&#039;s blog which led me to someone else&#039;s blog and they referred their readers here.  I believe your Blog is a blessing to those who read it. The fact that you have so many comments shows that people are drawn here. You have to do what is right for you, but I think it&#039;s pretty obvious that people want to hear what you have to say.  I know I&#039;ll be checking in daily to see if there are any new posts. You and your family will be on my daily prayer list.  God Bless! 

Romans 8:28 - &quot;And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, I&#8217;ve been reading Kris Carr&#8217;s blog which led me to someone else&#8217;s blog and they referred their readers here.  I believe your Blog is a blessing to those who read it. The fact that you have so many comments shows that people are drawn here. You have to do what is right for you, but I think it&#8217;s pretty obvious that people want to hear what you have to say.  I know I&#8217;ll be checking in daily to see if there are any new posts. You and your family will be on my daily prayer list.  God Bless! </p>
<p>Romans 8:28 &#8211; &#8220;And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Friend</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-19873</link>
		<dc:creator>Friend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Nov 2007 17:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oops, I need spell check- that would be my question-Why don&#039;t you have spell check?  The above posting should read His word and, What is the best thing for you to do to get your needs met: not to be pressured to fulfill the needs of others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops, I need spell check- that would be my question-Why don&#8217;t you have spell check?  The above posting should read His word and, What is the best thing for you to do to get your needs met: not to be pressured to fulfill the needs of others.</p>
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		<title>By: Friend</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-19872</link>
		<dc:creator>Friend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Nov 2007 17:37:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather,
If you take a break from your writing, your inspiration from his word is still here waiting when and if you decide to return to it.  My question to you is, what is the best this for you to get your needs me: not to be pressured to fulfill the needs of others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,<br />
If you take a break from your writing, your inspiration from his word is still here waiting when and if you decide to return to it.  My question to you is, what is the best this for you to get your needs me: not to be pressured to fulfill the needs of others.</p>
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		<title>By: Ceinna</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-19856</link>
		<dc:creator>Ceinna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 17:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m glad you decided to continue writing.  I just stumbled upon your blog this morning and spent hours here reading about your life and all the trials you have faced and continue to face.  Your faith, strength and resolve are inspiring.  I&#039;ve drifted way off course in my relationship with God and you stirred my spirit as I read your posts - and that hasn&#039;t happened in a long time.  My faith and passion for Jesus used to be so much like yours.  I saw my old self in you and that touched me.  My question to you would be how would you advise someone like me to get back to the spiritual place where you are?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad you decided to continue writing.  I just stumbled upon your blog this morning and spent hours here reading about your life and all the trials you have faced and continue to face.  Your faith, strength and resolve are inspiring.  I&#8217;ve drifted way off course in my relationship with God and you stirred my spirit as I read your posts &#8211; and that hasn&#8217;t happened in a long time.  My faith and passion for Jesus used to be so much like yours.  I saw my old self in you and that touched me.  My question to you would be how would you advise someone like me to get back to the spiritual place where you are?</p>
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		<title>By: Lizzie</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-19225</link>
		<dc:creator>Lizzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 02:19:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am blessed by your blog because I&#039;m suffering through a trial which I blog about;)
I find that many of the verses you share or the songs you post are JUST what I needed.
Amazing isn&#039;t it how God and his Word apply to each of us no matter what we&#039;re dealing with?

I also tell myself that I guess I agree with God that this trial is better for me and I don&#039;t want to trade my burden for yours! I don&#039;t mean that unkindly. If you&#039;re still reading these comments and pop over to my blog, you&#039;ll see what I mean. You probably wouldn&#039;t trade with me either;).

Thank you for your honesty. It&#039;s ok to not always be positive. I think that people who don&#039;t share the struggles leave others with the thought that they dont&#039; have struggles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am blessed by your blog because I&#8217;m suffering through a trial which I blog about;)<br />
I find that many of the verses you share or the songs you post are JUST what I needed.<br />
Amazing isn&#8217;t it how God and his Word apply to each of us no matter what we&#8217;re dealing with?</p>
<p>I also tell myself that I guess I agree with God that this trial is better for me and I don&#8217;t want to trade my burden for yours! I don&#8217;t mean that unkindly. If you&#8217;re still reading these comments and pop over to my blog, you&#8217;ll see what I mean. You probably wouldn&#8217;t trade with me either;).</p>
<p>Thank you for your honesty. It&#8217;s ok to not always be positive. I think that people who don&#8217;t share the struggles leave others with the thought that they dont&#8217; have struggles.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather_TFS</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-19075</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather_TFS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 18:59:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather - you want/need to know how your blog has touched people. I can&#039;t speak for others, but I found your blog while surfing on a traffic exchange, trying to earn &quot;hits&quot; so traffic can be directed to my websites. Of course the name of your blog/site caught my attention (we Heather&#039;s need to stick together). Then I saw your picture. Of course the first thing through my mind is, &quot;Ok, this is about cancer&quot;. I worked for 5 years as the medical biller/Asst. Transplant Coordinator for Bone Marrow Transplant here in Orlando, so bald heads are a familiar sight to me. 

I was so wrong. Yes, you talk about your cancer and everything you are going through, but that wasn&#039;t what caught my attention. As I was reading your blog, the first thing that truly hit me was &quot;This woman is a Christian. Not just any Christian, but one who truly has faith and knows the Lord.&quot; 

I can tell that you are going through so much. Not just personally, but also with your daughter. You are such an inspiration. I&#039;m not going through the same things you are, but our family is going through our own difficulties right now. Reading your blog today, and simply learning from you about strength and faith, has been such a help. 

God will lead you to either continue writing this blog, or He will find another venue for you. Either way, you and your family are in my prayers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather &#8211; you want/need to know how your blog has touched people. I can&#8217;t speak for others, but I found your blog while surfing on a traffic exchange, trying to earn &#8220;hits&#8221; so traffic can be directed to my websites. Of course the name of your blog/site caught my attention (we Heather&#8217;s need to stick together). Then I saw your picture. Of course the first thing through my mind is, &#8220;Ok, this is about cancer&#8221;. I worked for 5 years as the medical biller/Asst. Transplant Coordinator for Bone Marrow Transplant here in Orlando, so bald heads are a familiar sight to me. </p>
<p>I was so wrong. Yes, you talk about your cancer and everything you are going through, but that wasn&#8217;t what caught my attention. As I was reading your blog, the first thing that truly hit me was &#8220;This woman is a Christian. Not just any Christian, but one who truly has faith and knows the Lord.&#8221; </p>
<p>I can tell that you are going through so much. Not just personally, but also with your daughter. You are such an inspiration. I&#8217;m not going through the same things you are, but our family is going through our own difficulties right now. Reading your blog today, and simply learning from you about strength and faith, has been such a help. </p>
<p>God will lead you to either continue writing this blog, or He will find another venue for you. Either way, you and your family are in my prayers.</p>
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		<title>By: K-Mama</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18850</link>
		<dc:creator>K-Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 19:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather - I hope you are healing and feeling strong.  I am praying for you whenever your names pops into my head, which is many many times a day since my daughter is also Heather.  I enjoy reading about you and your precious family and your christian faith.  I am a christian too and the things you write give me strength and hope when i am doubting my abilities.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather &#8211; I hope you are healing and feeling strong.  I am praying for you whenever your names pops into my head, which is many many times a day since my daughter is also Heather.  I enjoy reading about you and your precious family and your christian faith.  I am a christian too and the things you write give me strength and hope when i am doubting my abilities.  Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18739</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Sep 2007 16:39:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Although we are of different religions, your faith in the Divine is refeshing and inspiring to me.  Also, through one of your old blogs, we finally found out what our son&#039;s issues and problems were.  He is Autistic spectrum!  Thanks to your links on autism we found a doctor who knew what my son had..........</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Although we are of different religions, your faith in the Divine is refeshing and inspiring to me.  Also, through one of your old blogs, we finally found out what our son&#8217;s issues and problems were.  He is Autistic spectrum!  Thanks to your links on autism we found a doctor who knew what my son had&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Thompson</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18604</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Thompson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 02:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather I found your blog today, as I was looking for information on hair scarves and wigs. You see my baby sister, my only sister is suffering from brest cancer stage 4 . And today most all her beautiful long alburn hair fell out, due to the cemo. I am unable to be with her now we live 3 hours appart. This has been a very emotional day for her and my mother who lives near her. It has been an all day ordeal with the hair comming out. I read on your web site 2 corinthins 12: 8-10 and you reminded me how this is all about jesus. I mean this life we are given. So I sent her some flowers with this scripture. And later when we spoke she sounded much better. I thank God for you web site. I found hope today through you.    God bless and heal you! IN JESUS HOLY NAME! JILL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather I found your blog today, as I was looking for information on hair scarves and wigs. You see my baby sister, my only sister is suffering from brest cancer stage 4 . And today most all her beautiful long alburn hair fell out, due to the cemo. I am unable to be with her now we live 3 hours appart. This has been a very emotional day for her and my mother who lives near her. It has been an all day ordeal with the hair comming out. I read on your web site 2 corinthins 12: 8-10 and you reminded me how this is all about jesus. I mean this life we are given. So I sent her some flowers with this scripture. And later when we spoke she sounded much better. I thank God for you web site. I found hope today through you.    God bless and heal you! IN JESUS HOLY NAME! JILL</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica Harvey</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18454</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Harvey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2007 17:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are a reminder of life, and that bad things can happen to good people. You a reminder of God&#039;s sovereign love. Of His grace. Of the strength and peace that can only come from Him. You are a reminder that whatever &quot;goes wrong&quot; in my life doesn&#039;t change who He is. 

Grace and Peace my dear sister-
Jess</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are a reminder of life, and that bad things can happen to good people. You a reminder of God&#8217;s sovereign love. Of His grace. Of the strength and peace that can only come from Him. You are a reminder that whatever &#8220;goes wrong&#8221; in my life doesn&#8217;t change who He is. </p>
<p>Grace and Peace my dear sister-<br />
Jess</p>
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		<title>By: Sheryl</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18384</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 01:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been inspired and encouraged through your blog...as has so many others.  I can&#039;t say whether that is a good enough reason for you to blog or not. I will say, I&#039;ve often thought, what an amazing journal you are leaving your kids for the days ahead in their lives where they will face their giants.  To know &quot;mom&quot; had doubts, struggles, fears, yet kept her eyes on Jesus through it all...that is a priceless heirloom/heritage to pass down to them.
It&#039;s one thing to look back and tell them the story...it&#039;s another thing for them to hold in their hands the day-to-day testament of all that was going on in your life...your emotions, your thoughts, your desires and dreams, your relinquishment of them all to the Lord.
Just my .02 ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been inspired and encouraged through your blog&#8230;as has so many others.  I can&#8217;t say whether that is a good enough reason for you to blog or not. I will say, I&#8217;ve often thought, what an amazing journal you are leaving your kids for the days ahead in their lives where they will face their giants.  To know &#8220;mom&#8221; had doubts, struggles, fears, yet kept her eyes on Jesus through it all&#8230;that is a priceless heirloom/heritage to pass down to them.<br />
It&#8217;s one thing to look back and tell them the story&#8230;it&#8217;s another thing for them to hold in their hands the day-to-day testament of all that was going on in your life&#8230;your emotions, your thoughts, your desires and dreams, your relinquishment of them all to the Lord.<br />
Just my .02 <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kris</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18345</link>
		<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 03:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather,

I found your blog just before I lost my remission from leukemia.  You have been such a tremendous witness to me, as my faith has been weak.   I would truly miss the blessing your blog has been in my life if you were to quit writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,</p>
<p>I found your blog just before I lost my remission from leukemia.  You have been such a tremendous witness to me, as my faith has been weak.   I would truly miss the blessing your blog has been in my life if you were to quit writing.</p>
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		<title>By: Katie</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18343</link>
		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 02:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another P.S about blogging: Forgot to mention, even if all you want to blog about is &quot;negative&quot;, or as you said something that might offend, that is your choice. It is your blog, it is all about how you feel and what you&#039;re doing. And you are all about why we come back and read your blog every day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another P.S about blogging: Forgot to mention, even if all you want to blog about is &#8220;negative&#8221;, or as you said something that might offend, that is your choice. It is your blog, it is all about how you feel and what you&#8217;re doing. And you are all about why we come back and read your blog every day!</p>
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		<title>By: Katie</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18339</link>
		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 01:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Heather, I try to read your blog every day and have posted just a few times. Your story and your courage are so awe-inspiring to me (and to so many other, judging from their comments). You have been in my prayers since I discovered your blog. But you asked how your blog has touched my life: I can&#039;t say specifically, I just know that after surviving breast cancer I feel a sort of kinship with you. I am drawn to your blog, I really am! I too blogged throughout my chemo, surgery, and radiation (for breast cancer). It was so therapeutic. My family and friends counted on my postings, so they knew I was doing OK and also so they could catch up on how things were going. They noticed when I stopped posting (when radiation got me down, very briefly). Very recently, I learned that my cancer is back, or perhaps it is still there because the surgeon missed it during the lumpectomy in February....no one is saying for sure. I am currently awaiting results of various scans and also a surgery date. I have found that I am going back to your archives more and more since I learned of my recurrence. I guess it sounds like I visit your blog for selfish reasons now, doesn&#039;t it? I visit to cheer you on, to check up on your progress, and now also for my own inspiration.
My question for you: What is the sweetest thing your children have done for you and/or said to you?
P.S. About blogging: I definitely understand reaching a point where you&#039;re not sure you want to write or what you want to write. You need to do what is best for you. If blogging makes you happy, stick with it. If you&#039;re a wreck over it, take a well-deserved break and maybe work on some posts to save for when you decide to resume.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Heather, I try to read your blog every day and have posted just a few times. Your story and your courage are so awe-inspiring to me (and to so many other, judging from their comments). You have been in my prayers since I discovered your blog. But you asked how your blog has touched my life: I can&#8217;t say specifically, I just know that after surviving breast cancer I feel a sort of kinship with you. I am drawn to your blog, I really am! I too blogged throughout my chemo, surgery, and radiation (for breast cancer). It was so therapeutic. My family and friends counted on my postings, so they knew I was doing OK and also so they could catch up on how things were going. They noticed when I stopped posting (when radiation got me down, very briefly). Very recently, I learned that my cancer is back, or perhaps it is still there because the surgeon missed it during the lumpectomy in February&#8230;.no one is saying for sure. I am currently awaiting results of various scans and also a surgery date. I have found that I am going back to your archives more and more since I learned of my recurrence. I guess it sounds like I visit your blog for selfish reasons now, doesn&#8217;t it? I visit to cheer you on, to check up on your progress, and now also for my own inspiration.<br />
My question for you: What is the sweetest thing your children have done for you and/or said to you?<br />
P.S. About blogging: I definitely understand reaching a point where you&#8217;re not sure you want to write or what you want to write. You need to do what is best for you. If blogging makes you happy, stick with it. If you&#8217;re a wreck over it, take a well-deserved break and maybe work on some posts to save for when you decide to resume.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebekah</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18317</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 19:31:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t even remember how I ran across your blog, but I did, and I am drawn to it, to you. Your life, your story, and your words touch me deeply, and have helped me, ah, I struggle with finding the words..... You are young and you have a family that you love dearly, and I am young with four children, and when I am busy getting irritated over stupid, unimportant things or acting out selfishly or just being myself, I remember you. I am reminded not to be so caught up in my own little world. You inspire me to have greater faith and to be more honest. I pray for you and am asking God to continue to pour out his mercies, his love, his peace, and his Spirit into your life (there is already so much evidence of his breath in your life). You are my sister in Christ,  and I feel so unbelievably blessed to know about you and your life. I have listed you on my blog as a blog I love because I hope that the few people who visit me will visit you. 
God bless you and your family abundantly,
Rebekah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t even remember how I ran across your blog, but I did, and I am drawn to it, to you. Your life, your story, and your words touch me deeply, and have helped me, ah, I struggle with finding the words&#8230;.. You are young and you have a family that you love dearly, and I am young with four children, and when I am busy getting irritated over stupid, unimportant things or acting out selfishly or just being myself, I remember you. I am reminded not to be so caught up in my own little world. You inspire me to have greater faith and to be more honest. I pray for you and am asking God to continue to pour out his mercies, his love, his peace, and his Spirit into your life (there is already so much evidence of his breath in your life). You are my sister in Christ,  and I feel so unbelievably blessed to know about you and your life. I have listed you on my blog as a blog I love because I hope that the few people who visit me will visit you.<br />
God bless you and your family abundantly,<br />
Rebekah</p>
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		<title>By: Jazzy</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18315</link>
		<dc:creator>Jazzy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 19:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather,
I don&#039;t check blogs very often and not always yours, but when I do, I am struck by your strength. I don&#039;t have a question, but wanted to encourage you to keep writing, but to write for yourself. Write when you are feeling low, even if it isn&#039;t positive.  This is your blog and your life to share.  I would also encourage you to continue writing as you are a wonderful witness for Christ and there is nothing better than that.  God bless and may you continue to share your journey, the good, the bad and the ugly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,<br />
I don&#8217;t check blogs very often and not always yours, but when I do, I am struck by your strength. I don&#8217;t have a question, but wanted to encourage you to keep writing, but to write for yourself. Write when you are feeling low, even if it isn&#8217;t positive.  This is your blog and your life to share.  I would also encourage you to continue writing as you are a wonderful witness for Christ and there is nothing better than that.  God bless and may you continue to share your journey, the good, the bad and the ugly.</p>
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		<title>By: Athena</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18306</link>
		<dc:creator>Athena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 18:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather-
I stumbled across your blog from another I was reading, just after your cancer diagnosis.  As I&#039;ve shared with you in a private email, in February I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that has no cure, no treatment, and the prognosis as to when my organs will shut down is next week? next month? 30 years???  I also have a rare spine disease and hemophelia. So, while our situations are not the same, I am also facing the same thoughts of fear of leaving my young family, 1 son with aspergers/bipolar/epilepsy, a beautiful daughter I am so close to, and a 4yo son with developmental delays that we adopted 1 1/2 years ago, all of whom I homeschool. Not to mention the most wonderful husband in the world.  
While looking through blogs, I was searching for someone who understood what I am going through.  A christian woman with children, maybe even with special needs, maybe even a homeschooler.  I found you!  You put into elequent words what is swirling in my head.  I&#039;m terrible at memorizing bible verses.  You always jot down just the verse I need to get through that day.  The songs you choose to put on your blog often bring me to tears, good tears that help me remember to be strong.  Your blog helps me so much-although I know in my heart my saviour is in control and is with me every step of the way, when I am having a bad, lay on the couch day, thinking I can&#039;t possibly do this anymore, there is your blog, and Iknow you understand.  Your experience and words lift me up.  Please continue your blog!!  My question to you would be who is your favorite Christian singer and song?
Many hugs to you!
Athena in Utah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather-<br />
I stumbled across your blog from another I was reading, just after your cancer diagnosis.  As I&#8217;ve shared with you in a private email, in February I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that has no cure, no treatment, and the prognosis as to when my organs will shut down is next week? next month? 30 years???  I also have a rare spine disease and hemophelia. So, while our situations are not the same, I am also facing the same thoughts of fear of leaving my young family, 1 son with aspergers/bipolar/epilepsy, a beautiful daughter I am so close to, and a 4yo son with developmental delays that we adopted 1 1/2 years ago, all of whom I homeschool. Not to mention the most wonderful husband in the world.<br />
While looking through blogs, I was searching for someone who understood what I am going through.  A christian woman with children, maybe even with special needs, maybe even a homeschooler.  I found you!  You put into elequent words what is swirling in my head.  I&#8217;m terrible at memorizing bible verses.  You always jot down just the verse I need to get through that day.  The songs you choose to put on your blog often bring me to tears, good tears that help me remember to be strong.  Your blog helps me so much-although I know in my heart my saviour is in control and is with me every step of the way, when I am having a bad, lay on the couch day, thinking I can&#8217;t possibly do this anymore, there is your blog, and Iknow you understand.  Your experience and words lift me up.  Please continue your blog!!  My question to you would be who is your favorite Christian singer and song?<br />
Many hugs to you!<br />
Athena in Utah</p>
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		<title>By: Frances</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2007/09/10/pull-up-a-chair-lets-chat/comment-page-4/#comment-18304</link>
		<dc:creator>Frances</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 17:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, I started reading the other comments to be sure I didn&#039;t repeat the question, but gave up after making it through about 1 or 12.  Your blog has touched my life in ways I can&#039;t explain.  When we donated money so that you wouldn&#039;t have to worry while you were in Minnesota; my little donation was only a drop in the bucket.  But together we raised enough money to take that burden from you.  Last week when I checked in and you hadn&#039;t blogged, I knew you were having a bad day/days/week and sent up prayers.  The same God watching over me in Atlanta is watching over you in Florida.  The Lord is usng you for good, my friend.

My question:  Would you like a second cup of coffee:  and What do you take in your coffee?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, I started reading the other comments to be sure I didn&#8217;t repeat the question, but gave up after making it through about 1 or 12.  Your blog has touched my life in ways I can&#8217;t explain.  When we donated money so that you wouldn&#8217;t have to worry while you were in Minnesota; my little donation was only a drop in the bucket.  But together we raised enough money to take that burden from you.  Last week when I checked in and you hadn&#8217;t blogged, I knew you were having a bad day/days/week and sent up prayers.  The same God watching over me in Atlanta is watching over you in Florida.  The Lord is usng you for good, my friend.</p>
<p>My question:  Would you like a second cup of coffee:  and What do you take in your coffee?</p>
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