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		<title>By: Annamaria</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24664</link>
		<dc:creator>Annamaria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:49:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>eep!  It&#039;s late...or early...forgive my mistakes!  I REALLY can spell a few words.

Just remembered...I read my daughter &quot;Great Expectations&quot; as a bedtime story, just for the fun of it.  Made her life much easier when 9th grade english came along.  And, she learned about &quot;anonymous benefactors.&quot;  Now, as an adult, when she wants to help someone (donate a coat, leave a bag of groceries on a porch), she includes a note that says &quot;You are receiving this because God loves you and wants you, as his special child, to have what you need.  From your anonymous benefactor.&quot;

I&#039;m so proud of her!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>eep!  It&#8217;s late&#8230;or early&#8230;forgive my mistakes!  I REALLY can spell a few words.</p>
<p>Just remembered&#8230;I read my daughter &#8220;Great Expectations&#8221; as a bedtime story, just for the fun of it.  Made her life much easier when 9th grade english came along.  And, she learned about &#8220;anonymous benefactors.&#8221;  Now, as an adult, when she wants to help someone (donate a coat, leave a bag of groceries on a porch), she includes a note that says &#8220;You are receiving this because God loves you and wants you, as his special child, to have what you need.  From your anonymous benefactor.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so proud of her!</p>
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		<title>By: Annamaria</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24663</link>
		<dc:creator>Annamaria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Enjoy cooking and especially baking with your children.  While it is a fun way to teach and learn about measurements, fractions, following directions, it is also nurturing and full of memories.  Learning fractions conincides with the sweetness of a muffin....Measuring items into a yummy trail mix give you a chance to teach about nutrients, and savor feeding little bites to each other.  

Heather, I believe homeschooling for you and yours is about creating fabulous memories.  

You might teach digital photography as a way to tell a story...it helps children express themselves and lets us grown ups see from their amazing point of view.

Just my thoughts...peace and blessings...

Annamaria</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Enjoy cooking and especially baking with your children.  While it is a fun way to teach and learn about measurements, fractions, following directions, it is also nurturing and full of memories.  Learning fractions conincides with the sweetness of a muffin&#8230;.Measuring items into a yummy trail mix give you a chance to teach about nutrients, and savor feeding little bites to each other.  </p>
<p>Heather, I believe homeschooling for you and yours is about creating fabulous memories.  </p>
<p>You might teach digital photography as a way to tell a story&#8230;it helps children express themselves and lets us grown ups see from their amazing point of view.</p>
<p>Just my thoughts&#8230;peace and blessings&#8230;</p>
<p>Annamaria</p>
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		<title>By: Spunky</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24628</link>
		<dc:creator>Spunky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 01:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>H Heather,

I&#039;m a reader through bloglines, but don&#039;t comment often.   But I just had to click and read what every one else wrote in answer to your questions.   They were all sooo inspiring.   

What do I wish I had done differently?   Waiting until the internet was invented.   Gosh that would have made my life simpler!  But I don&#039;t think I ever would have started, I&#039;d be too busy reading all the great advice.  

What do I regret?
That I didn&#039;t write the book, And Then I had Kids.    It all seemed so easy when homeschooling was just a concept in my head.  And then I had kids and started homeschooling and reality set in.   On a serious note, I don&#039;t think I would have compared myself as much to what others were doing.   

My fondest memory of homeschooling?
My son had visited the Michigan capital.    He wrote a letter of thanks to your state senator for the tour.   In the letter he said, &quot;now that I&#039;ve come to see your house, will you come visit mine?&quot;    A few weeks later, I got a call from the Senator&#039;s secretary accepting the invitation!  We schedule for a few weeks down the road.   But do to a strange and terrible twist of events, our other son landed in the hospital for a week and we had a kitchen remodeling disaster to add to the mix.     The house looked awful, but it was too late to cancel.    I thought about renting a house and pretending we were the &quot;perfect&quot; homeschool family, but I&#039;m too honest.   So he came.   We had a great time.    All the children loved it.    

Great questions.

I&#039;m praying for you all as you begin your new year.

Spunkys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://spunkyhomeschool.blogspot.com/2008/08/what-are-living-books.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What are living books?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>H Heather,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a reader through bloglines, but don&#8217;t comment often.   But I just had to click and read what every one else wrote in answer to your questions.   They were all sooo inspiring.   </p>
<p>What do I wish I had done differently?   Waiting until the internet was invented.   Gosh that would have made my life simpler!  But I don&#8217;t think I ever would have started, I&#8217;d be too busy reading all the great advice.  </p>
<p>What do I regret?<br />
That I didn&#8217;t write the book, And Then I had Kids.    It all seemed so easy when homeschooling was just a concept in my head.  And then I had kids and started homeschooling and reality set in.   On a serious note, I don&#8217;t think I would have compared myself as much to what others were doing.   </p>
<p>My fondest memory of homeschooling?<br />
My son had visited the Michigan capital.    He wrote a letter of thanks to your state senator for the tour.   In the letter he said, &#8220;now that I&#8217;ve come to see your house, will you come visit mine?&#8221;    A few weeks later, I got a call from the Senator&#8217;s secretary accepting the invitation!  We schedule for a few weeks down the road.   But do to a strange and terrible twist of events, our other son landed in the hospital for a week and we had a kitchen remodeling disaster to add to the mix.     The house looked awful, but it was too late to cancel.    I thought about renting a house and pretending we were the &#8220;perfect&#8221; homeschool family, but I&#8217;m too honest.   So he came.   We had a great time.    All the children loved it.    </p>
<p>Great questions.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m praying for you all as you begin your new year.</p>
<p>Spunkys last blog post..<a href="http://spunkyhomeschool.blogspot.com/2008/08/what-are-living-books.html" rel="nofollow">What are living books?</a></p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24626</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 20:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know if you&#039;ve ever read Fiddledeedee&#039;s blog, but she&#039;s a big-time homeschooler, has great advice and also lives in Florida</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ve ever read Fiddledeedee&#8217;s blog, but she&#8217;s a big-time homeschooler, has great advice and also lives in Florida</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24584</link>
		<dc:creator>Elizabeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 21:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have 4 daughters and have always homeschooled (the olderst is starting 5th grade next week).  I have loved reading all the posts - good stuff!

I have to reiterate what Kim from MI (the 2nd post) said - ask yourself why you homeschool and form your priorities around that (although she put it better than I can).  One year, my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer and my neice was diagnosed with small cell carcinoma of the cervix (she had a 1 month old baby at the time).  That was so tough, and we didn&#039;t get much &quot;school work&quot; done that year.  My neice was miraculously healed and is still doing great.  My dad received complete healing by going home to heaven.

We were able to get to the academics later - but that year my girls learned a lot more important things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have 4 daughters and have always homeschooled (the olderst is starting 5th grade next week).  I have loved reading all the posts &#8211; good stuff!</p>
<p>I have to reiterate what Kim from MI (the 2nd post) said &#8211; ask yourself why you homeschool and form your priorities around that (although she put it better than I can).  One year, my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer and my neice was diagnosed with small cell carcinoma of the cervix (she had a 1 month old baby at the time).  That was so tough, and we didn&#8217;t get much &#8220;school work&#8221; done that year.  My neice was miraculously healed and is still doing great.  My dad received complete healing by going home to heaven.</p>
<p>We were able to get to the academics later &#8211; but that year my girls learned a lot more important things.</p>
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		<title>By: Fiddledeedee</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24582</link>
		<dc:creator>Fiddledeedee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 01:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would have bought the industrial sized bottle of Excedrin.  :)

I&#039;ll be seeing you at convention next May, right??

Fiddledeedees last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fiddledeedee.net/2008/08/02/used-curriculum-sites/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Used Curriculum Sites&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would have bought the industrial sized bottle of Excedrin.  <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be seeing you at convention next May, right??</p>
<p>Fiddledeedees last blog post..<a href="http://fiddledeedee.net/2008/08/02/used-curriculum-sites/" rel="nofollow">Used Curriculum Sites</a></p>
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		<title>By: Bobbie</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24581</link>
		<dc:creator>Bobbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 05:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh this is important too, what works for one child may not work with another...If it isn&#039;t working switch to something else. Borrow when you can swap if you need to experiment or click on google for just about anything. Frustration is not a gift of the Spirit so do not nurture it....Know your child&#039;s learning style, visual, audio, etc. do not box yourself in, or them.

Because of Jesus, Bobbie

Bobbies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/bubbebobbie/565541/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Show and Tell with Canadagirl and Liz Curtis Higgs&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh this is important too, what works for one child may not work with another&#8230;If it isn&#8217;t working switch to something else. Borrow when you can swap if you need to experiment or click on google for just about anything. Frustration is not a gift of the Spirit so do not nurture it&#8230;.Know your child&#8217;s learning style, visual, audio, etc. do not box yourself in, or them.</p>
<p>Because of Jesus, Bobbie</p>
<p>Bobbies last blog post..<a href="http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/bubbebobbie/565541/" rel="nofollow">Show and Tell with Canadagirl and Liz Curtis Higgs</a></p>
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		<title>By: Bobbie</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24580</link>
		<dc:creator>Bobbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 05:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What do you wish you would have differently when you first started homeschooling? I would have trusted the Lord to lead us in choosing what they needed to learn over set curriculum and oversight from Christian liberty academy. But they did give me the confidence to believe I could do this and that I could pick and choose what they needed as well as they could. What do you regret?I wish I would have never sent them to school to begin with and kept them in my care from the beginning. I put off using Saxon Math because I wanted everything to be Christ centered, and nothing teaches Math concepts like saxon!  What is your fondest memory of homeschooling your child(ren)? The spontaneous conversations that hapen in the midst of book work. All the moments that would have gotten them sent to the Principal because they were talking in class became moments of deep growth and wonder. Mostly when they finally left our home for their own, I was so grateful to have memories of fungi and snake disection but above all I knew their hearts and who they were deep inside. It is the love that makes it all worth while.

If you would email me Heather, I would love to mail you a book.

Just remember that God gave these precious children to you because you and your husband possess everything they require to be the man and women of God He wants them to be. Your love of writing, his love of science....God knows what they need so He gave them to you. Trust Him!

because of Jesus, Bobbie

Bobbies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/bubbebobbie/565541/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Show and Tell with Canadagirl and Liz Curtis Higgs&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you wish you would have differently when you first started homeschooling? I would have trusted the Lord to lead us in choosing what they needed to learn over set curriculum and oversight from Christian liberty academy. But they did give me the confidence to believe I could do this and that I could pick and choose what they needed as well as they could. What do you regret?I wish I would have never sent them to school to begin with and kept them in my care from the beginning. I put off using Saxon Math because I wanted everything to be Christ centered, and nothing teaches Math concepts like saxon!  What is your fondest memory of homeschooling your child(ren)? The spontaneous conversations that hapen in the midst of book work. All the moments that would have gotten them sent to the Principal because they were talking in class became moments of deep growth and wonder. Mostly when they finally left our home for their own, I was so grateful to have memories of fungi and snake disection but above all I knew their hearts and who they were deep inside. It is the love that makes it all worth while.</p>
<p>If you would email me Heather, I would love to mail you a book.</p>
<p>Just remember that God gave these precious children to you because you and your husband possess everything they require to be the man and women of God He wants them to be. Your love of writing, his love of science&#8230;.God knows what they need so He gave them to you. Trust Him!</p>
<p>because of Jesus, Bobbie</p>
<p>Bobbies last blog post..<a href="http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/bubbebobbie/565541/" rel="nofollow">Show and Tell with Canadagirl and Liz Curtis Higgs</a></p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24579</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 03:15:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We are about to start our second yr of homeschooling. My kids will be in 5th and 8th grade. Last yr was rough as we moved, then I had my cancer &quot;experience&quot; which landed me in surgery, then recovery. Trying to keep up with curriculum was stressful at times. Now I am leaving the country for a month in September so catching up this yr may not happen either. What I keep reminding myself is that God told me to homeschool, He didn&#039;t tell me to homeschool and freak out over the details. We do best when I am flexible and allow us to enjoy ourselves, not watch the clock (curriculum vs days left in the year or semester).

We are still taking things one day at a time but I am much more hopeful about this school year. I hear the 1st yr is the hardest, trying to figure out what works for your family. I think we are a lot closer to having things work out (although we are in the process of adopting 3 more kids, so I&#039;m sure it will not go as smoothly as I hope this yr either LOL).

Not sure I exactly answered your question but just want to encourage you to try and remember to let God lead each day, start and end with prayer together if you can, the rest is just blessings from Him. If you can teach your kids about loving God, the rest won&#039;t seem so important, yet will fall into place. At least that has been our experience.

Michelles last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://findingrdaughter.blogspot.com/2008/07/disappointment-lpc-police.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Disappointment &amp; The LPC Police&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are about to start our second yr of homeschooling. My kids will be in 5th and 8th grade. Last yr was rough as we moved, then I had my cancer &#8220;experience&#8221; which landed me in surgery, then recovery. Trying to keep up with curriculum was stressful at times. Now I am leaving the country for a month in September so catching up this yr may not happen either. What I keep reminding myself is that God told me to homeschool, He didn&#8217;t tell me to homeschool and freak out over the details. We do best when I am flexible and allow us to enjoy ourselves, not watch the clock (curriculum vs days left in the year or semester).</p>
<p>We are still taking things one day at a time but I am much more hopeful about this school year. I hear the 1st yr is the hardest, trying to figure out what works for your family. I think we are a lot closer to having things work out (although we are in the process of adopting 3 more kids, so I&#8217;m sure it will not go as smoothly as I hope this yr either LOL).</p>
<p>Not sure I exactly answered your question but just want to encourage you to try and remember to let God lead each day, start and end with prayer together if you can, the rest is just blessings from Him. If you can teach your kids about loving God, the rest won&#8217;t seem so important, yet will fall into place. At least that has been our experience.</p>
<p>Michelles last blog post..<a href="http://findingrdaughter.blogspot.com/2008/07/disappointment-lpc-police.html" rel="nofollow">Disappointment &amp; The LPC Police</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sandy</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24578</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 02:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Heather, I read your blog all the time.  You might want to check out http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=mrscatherine for advice on homeschooling.  Mrs. Catherine is a wonderful godly woman who has been homeschooling for a very very long time.  Hope it helps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Heather, I read your blog all the time.  You might want to check out <a href="http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=mrscatherine" rel="nofollow">http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=mrscatherine</a> for advice on homeschooling.  Mrs. Catherine is a wonderful godly woman who has been homeschooling for a very very long time.  Hope it helps.</p>
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		<title>By: Lea</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24576</link>
		<dc:creator>Lea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 16:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is a post I wrote back in July to encourage another mom... I thought it might help you too!

http://theendoftheroad.typepad.com/the_needle_in_a_haystack/2008/07/god-driven-schooling.html

Leas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theendoftheroad.typepad.com/the_needle_in_a_haystack/2008/08/gift-giving-ideas.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Gift Giving Ideas&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is a post I wrote back in July to encourage another mom&#8230; I thought it might help you too!</p>
<p><a href="http://theendoftheroad.typepad.com/the_needle_in_a_haystack/2008/07/god-driven-schooling.html" rel="nofollow">http://theendoftheroad.typepad.com/the_needle_in_a_haystack/2008/07/god-driven-schooling.html</a></p>
<p>Leas last blog post..<a href="http://theendoftheroad.typepad.com/the_needle_in_a_haystack/2008/08/gift-giving-ideas.html" rel="nofollow">Gift Giving Ideas</a></p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Sickles</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24575</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Sickles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 15:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather,  I have long followed  your blog and kept you and  yours in our prayers.  We have homeschooled for eight years.  I wish I had a little more time right now to add my thoughts, but I wanted to jump on real quick and tell you that I have a ton of ABeka stuff. If you can use any of it, you can have it with my blessing...just send me an email.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,  I have long followed  your blog and kept you and  yours in our prayers.  We have homeschooled for eight years.  I wish I had a little more time right now to add my thoughts, but I wanted to jump on real quick and tell you that I have a ton of ABeka stuff. If you can use any of it, you can have it with my blessing&#8230;just send me an email.</p>
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		<title>By: sheryl</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24574</link>
		<dc:creator>sheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 05:29:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We&#039;ve graduated two and our &quot;baby&quot; will graduate this next year.  With the first two we started when they were in 6th and 7th grades.  Our youngest when he was in second grade.  So the first thing I&#039;d do differently is keep them all home from the beginning.  Second, like so many other mom&#039;s have already said, I would relax and enjoy the moments more...not be so bent on getting all the paperwork and bookwork done...spent more time doing hands-on things and exploring God&#039;s world.
What I did right and what constitutes all our favorite memories of that time period, was lot&#039;s of reading out loud...we had our sweetest times and our deepest conversations...and I think our greatest learning moments during those times.
Wishing you all the best...homeschooling is such a sweet journey...even on the worst days (and you will have those!)...your heart still knows these are the best of times and worth every minute, every effort, every dime expended.
Blessings...and I hope you&#039;ll keep us posted on how it all goes for you.

sheryls last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://takingthechallenge.typepad.com/taking_the_challenge/2008/07/faith-lift-fr-4.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;~* Faith-Lift Fridays  August 1, 2008 *~&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;ve graduated two and our &#8220;baby&#8221; will graduate this next year.  With the first two we started when they were in 6th and 7th grades.  Our youngest when he was in second grade.  So the first thing I&#8217;d do differently is keep them all home from the beginning.  Second, like so many other mom&#8217;s have already said, I would relax and enjoy the moments more&#8230;not be so bent on getting all the paperwork and bookwork done&#8230;spent more time doing hands-on things and exploring God&#8217;s world.<br />
What I did right and what constitutes all our favorite memories of that time period, was lot&#8217;s of reading out loud&#8230;we had our sweetest times and our deepest conversations&#8230;and I think our greatest learning moments during those times.<br />
Wishing you all the best&#8230;homeschooling is such a sweet journey&#8230;even on the worst days (and you will have those!)&#8230;your heart still knows these are the best of times and worth every minute, every effort, every dime expended.<br />
Blessings&#8230;and I hope you&#8217;ll keep us posted on how it all goes for you.</p>
<p>sheryls last blog post..<a href="http://takingthechallenge.typepad.com/taking_the_challenge/2008/07/faith-lift-fr-4.html" rel="nofollow">~* Faith-Lift Fridays  August 1, 2008 *~</a></p>
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		<title>By: shel@lifewithseven</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24573</link>
		<dc:creator>shel@lifewithseven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 03:02:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We&#039;re now into our 9th year homeschooling, and what I would&#039;ve done differently is focused on just the basics (3 r&#039;s) and been much more relaxed about the rest...done more hands-on things for science, like growing butterflies and just getting outdoors for &quot;nature study&quot;. For history, the absolute best thing that has worked is reading books out loud and skipping textbooks.  My kids remember so much from the &quot;real&quot; books we read, and very little from the textbook times. The great thing is that I&#039;ve got a bunch of little ones who I get to do things better with now (unfortunately, my teenagers were the guinea pigs).  Enjoy your full-time homeschooling.  I pray for you often.

shel@lifewithsevens last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lifewithseven.blogspot.com/2008/07/chugging-along.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Chugging Along&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re now into our 9th year homeschooling, and what I would&#8217;ve done differently is focused on just the basics (3 r&#8217;s) and been much more relaxed about the rest&#8230;done more hands-on things for science, like growing butterflies and just getting outdoors for &#8220;nature study&#8221;. For history, the absolute best thing that has worked is reading books out loud and skipping textbooks.  My kids remember so much from the &#8220;real&#8221; books we read, and very little from the textbook times. The great thing is that I&#8217;ve got a bunch of little ones who I get to do things better with now (unfortunately, my teenagers were the guinea pigs).  Enjoy your full-time homeschooling.  I pray for you often.</p>
<p>shel@lifewithsevens last blog post..<a href="http://lifewithseven.blogspot.com/2008/07/chugging-along.html" rel="nofollow">Chugging Along</a></p>
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		<title>By: B F.</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24572</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 19:44:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What do you wish you would have differently when you first started homeschooling? I wouldn&#039;t have had my son do so many subjects (in kindergarten!) and I would have let him be a child! I also have decided to not get into a whole gamut of subjects until he gets older.

What do you regret?I regret getting so uptight when things went off schedule.

  What is your fondest memory of homeschooling your child(ren)? Just the whole experience has been a wonder! I look at other families that work full-time and don&#039;t know their kids and I just can see the relationships that I have built with my kids are incredible and blessed.

B F.s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://gratefulpeaceful.blogspot.com/2008/07/my-closest-friend-moved-away-in.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Friends, or the Lack Thereof&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you wish you would have differently when you first started homeschooling? I wouldn&#8217;t have had my son do so many subjects (in kindergarten!) and I would have let him be a child! I also have decided to not get into a whole gamut of subjects until he gets older.</p>
<p>What do you regret?I regret getting so uptight when things went off schedule.</p>
<p>  What is your fondest memory of homeschooling your child(ren)? Just the whole experience has been a wonder! I look at other families that work full-time and don&#8217;t know their kids and I just can see the relationships that I have built with my kids are incredible and blessed.</p>
<p>B F.s last blog post..<a href="http://gratefulpeaceful.blogspot.com/2008/07/my-closest-friend-moved-away-in.html" rel="nofollow">Friends, or the Lack Thereof</a></p>
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		<title>By: Holly Smith</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24571</link>
		<dc:creator>Holly Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 19:24:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I homeschooled our oldest for the first two years.  I think one thing I would have done differently is to not put so much stock in the negative/anti-homeschooling folks.  Often I felt set up and put in a corner.  It made me feel inadequate to teach.  Yet, I knew deep down that I was doing a great job.  I regret letting others get me down over it.

I loved our classroom and made it so fun for the kids.  It was actually an office, but worked perfectly as a classroom.  Also, we lived in the country, so I loved when we went outside for some hiking/ searching for nature times.  We had a wonderful time reading together, as well.  I still read aloud for our family now that they are in public school here in Colorado.  Oh, and I loved Sonlight!!  It was my very favorite.  We used Singapore Math and our puzzle-loving kids loved it.  They have some CD-ROM&#039;s that you can use, if you want to check them out at sonlight dot com.

Oh!  And the best advice I&#039;ve ever had?  &quot;Look at your environment, children and location and with prayer, choose how you want to do school.&quot;  There are so many good options, but sometimes, people get competitive that their way is the best way.

Sorry for the very long comment!  I DO miss homeschooling so much! :blush:

Holly Smiths last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://crownlaiddown.blogspot.com/2008/08/settling-groan.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Settling Groan&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I homeschooled our oldest for the first two years.  I think one thing I would have done differently is to not put so much stock in the negative/anti-homeschooling folks.  Often I felt set up and put in a corner.  It made me feel inadequate to teach.  Yet, I knew deep down that I was doing a great job.  I regret letting others get me down over it.</p>
<p>I loved our classroom and made it so fun for the kids.  It was actually an office, but worked perfectly as a classroom.  Also, we lived in the country, so I loved when we went outside for some hiking/ searching for nature times.  We had a wonderful time reading together, as well.  I still read aloud for our family now that they are in public school here in Colorado.  Oh, and I loved Sonlight!!  It was my very favorite.  We used Singapore Math and our puzzle-loving kids loved it.  They have some CD-ROM&#8217;s that you can use, if you want to check them out at sonlight dot com.</p>
<p>Oh!  And the best advice I&#8217;ve ever had?  &#8220;Look at your environment, children and location and with prayer, choose how you want to do school.&#8221;  There are so many good options, but sometimes, people get competitive that their way is the best way.</p>
<p>Sorry for the very long comment!  I DO miss homeschooling so much! :blush:</p>
<p>Holly Smiths last blog post..<a href="http://crownlaiddown.blogspot.com/2008/08/settling-groan.html" rel="nofollow">A Settling Groan</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sheri</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24570</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 05:09:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My background...homeschooled 4 kids all the way through to graduation, currently homeschooling my last one and have 6 years to go...so I have completed 19 years and have 6 more years to go.  


My fondest memory...Curling up on the couch next to the woodstove and reading together while the snow is falling and we sip hot chocolate while most parents are driving their kids to school on those bad roads...I remember this many times over :)

Good for you and God bless you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My background&#8230;homeschooled 4 kids all the way through to graduation, currently homeschooling my last one and have 6 years to go&#8230;so I have completed 19 years and have 6 more years to go.  </p>
<p>My fondest memory&#8230;Curling up on the couch next to the woodstove and reading together while the snow is falling and we sip hot chocolate while most parents are driving their kids to school on those bad roads&#8230;I remember this many times over <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Good for you and God bless you!</p>
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		<title>By: genny</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24568</link>
		<dc:creator>genny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 19:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t homeschool my kids, but I just wanted to say I&#039;m glad I happened upon your blog.  I enjoyed stopping by!

gennys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mycup2yours.com/2008/07/story-about-best-friends-on-train.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Story About the Best Friends on the Train&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t homeschool my kids, but I just wanted to say I&#8217;m glad I happened upon your blog.  I enjoyed stopping by!</p>
<p>gennys last blog post..<a href="http://www.mycup2yours.com/2008/07/story-about-best-friends-on-train.html" rel="nofollow">The Story About the Best Friends on the Train</a></p>
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		<title>By: Claire in CA, USA</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24567</link>
		<dc:creator>Claire in CA, USA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 19:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One suggestion for Easton:  Look up &quot;Progeny Press.&quot;  They do Christian study guides for secular books, like &quot;The Giver.&quot;  

&quot;What do you wish you would have differently when you first started homeschooling?&quot;
I wouldn&#039;t have chosen a computer curriculum for my 3rd grader.  That was not good.  

What do you regret?
Not getting reading help for my son sooner.  He&#039;s doing great now, but he didn&#039;t read well until he was 11, and it was hard on him.

  What is your fondest memory of homeschooling your child(ren)?

I&#039;m still in the midst of homeschooling (7th grade and 9th grade).  My most precious memories aren&#039;t academic at all.  Their behavior towards others is what&#039;s astounding to me.  There is none of the sullenness I&#039;ve observed in so many traditionally-schooled children.  And I have a wonderful relationship with my 14yo daughter...I hated my mom at that age, mostly due to the feeding of my teenage angst by my peers.  My kids have lots of friends, but they are choosy, and won&#039;t hang out with kids who have bad attitudes.

Also, my daughter is highly motivated, so her schooling is mostly self-guided.  I&#039;ve loved seeing her delve into things like &quot;The Federalist Papers&quot; all on her own.

My son is still a challenge.  He would prefer to play music all day long.  Since he wants to be a pastor, we&#039;ve told him he really does have to learn how to study.  :-)

So glad to hear you&#039;re feeling well enough to homeschool this year.  God bless you, dear Heather.

Claire in CA, USAs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://twokidsagear-headandme.blogspot.com/2008/07/im-still-kickin-yall-which-is-probably.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One suggestion for Easton:  Look up &#8220;Progeny Press.&#8221;  They do Christian study guides for secular books, like &#8220;The Giver.&#8221;  </p>
<p>&#8220;What do you wish you would have differently when you first started homeschooling?&#8221;<br />
I wouldn&#8217;t have chosen a computer curriculum for my 3rd grader.  That was not good.  </p>
<p>What do you regret?<br />
Not getting reading help for my son sooner.  He&#8217;s doing great now, but he didn&#8217;t read well until he was 11, and it was hard on him.</p>
<p>  What is your fondest memory of homeschooling your child(ren)?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still in the midst of homeschooling (7th grade and 9th grade).  My most precious memories aren&#8217;t academic at all.  Their behavior towards others is what&#8217;s astounding to me.  There is none of the sullenness I&#8217;ve observed in so many traditionally-schooled children.  And I have a wonderful relationship with my 14yo daughter&#8230;I hated my mom at that age, mostly due to the feeding of my teenage angst by my peers.  My kids have lots of friends, but they are choosy, and won&#8217;t hang out with kids who have bad attitudes.</p>
<p>Also, my daughter is highly motivated, so her schooling is mostly self-guided.  I&#8217;ve loved seeing her delve into things like &#8220;The Federalist Papers&#8221; all on her own.</p>
<p>My son is still a challenge.  He would prefer to play music all day long.  Since he wants to be a pastor, we&#8217;ve told him he really does have to learn how to study.  <img src='http://especiallyheather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So glad to hear you&#8217;re feeling well enough to homeschool this year.  God bless you, dear Heather.</p>
<p>Claire in CA, USAs last blog post..<a href="http://twokidsagear-headandme.blogspot.com/2008/07/im-still-kickin-yall-which-is-probably.html" rel="nofollow"></a></p>
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		<title>By: Denise</title>
		<link>http://especiallyheather.com/2008/07/30/homeschooling/comment-page-1/#comment-24566</link>
		<dc:creator>Denise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 14:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish that I would have lightened up at first.  They&#039;re so little, for heaven&#039;s sake.  The last thing they needed was a psycho mom getting angry about stupid things.  They need to learn to read at first.  I wish I had just GENTLY focused on that and let other stuff go more often.  

I wish I had asked for help sooner with one of mine who wouldn&#039;t/couldn&#039;t read well until the 6th grade.  

About your curriculum...Don&#039;t let A Beka run your life.  It&#039;s not the Bible.  If they can&#039;t finish it all, that&#039;s ok.  If they already &#039;get it&#039; don&#039;t make them finish it all.  It&#039;s a great educational tool, but that&#039;s all it is... a tool.

The 2 cents of a stranger!

Denises last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://ruflife.blogspot.com/2008/07/favorite-movie-scenes.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;my all-time favorite movie scenes, part 3&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish that I would have lightened up at first.  They&#8217;re so little, for heaven&#8217;s sake.  The last thing they needed was a psycho mom getting angry about stupid things.  They need to learn to read at first.  I wish I had just GENTLY focused on that and let other stuff go more often.  </p>
<p>I wish I had asked for help sooner with one of mine who wouldn&#8217;t/couldn&#8217;t read well until the 6th grade.  </p>
<p>About your curriculum&#8230;Don&#8217;t let A Beka run your life.  It&#8217;s not the Bible.  If they can&#8217;t finish it all, that&#8217;s ok.  If they already &#8216;get it&#8217; don&#8217;t make them finish it all.  It&#8217;s a great educational tool, but that&#8217;s all it is&#8230; a tool.</p>
<p>The 2 cents of a stranger!</p>
<p>Denises last blog post..<a href="http://ruflife.blogspot.com/2008/07/favorite-movie-scenes.html" rel="nofollow">my all-time favorite movie scenes, part 3</a></p>
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